Breaking the Cycle of Domestic Violence: A Call to Action


Delaware Water Gap, PA (12/4/2023) – In the wake of the recent deadly shooting that rocked our community, we, Safe Monroe (formerly known as Women’s Resources of Monroe County) feel compelled to address the urgent need for comprehensive action to combat domestic violence. This tragic incident serves as a stark reminder of the devastating consequences that can arise when this pervasive issue is left unaddressed.

According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), more than half of all intimate partner homicides in the United States are committed with firearms, and more than 50 women in the U.S. are shot to death by an intimate partner every month. The Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence (PCADV) reported 104 deaths from domestic violence incidents last year.

Domestic abuse is a complex problem that affects individuals across all walks of life. It is not confined to any particular demographic, and its consequences echo throughout families and entire communities. The recent deadly shooting underscores the urgent need for a multifaceted approach to tackle the root causes of domestic abuse and violence and prevent such horrific outcomes in the future.

First, it is imperative to recognize that domestic violence is not a private matter; it is a societal concern that demands collective action to address it. One in four women, one in four men and nearly half of LGBTQ+ individuals will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime (PCADV). Safe Monroe urges the community to break the silence surrounding domestic abuse and foster a community where survivors feel supported and empowered to speak out and seek help. By destigmatizing the issue, we can encourage open dialogue and create a culture that prioritizes the safety and well-being of all.

Furthermore, legal systems, law enforcement, healthcare professionals, and community organizations must work collaboratively to improve early intervention and prevention efforts. Recognizing the signs of domestic violence and providing accessible resources for survivors are essential components of a comprehensive strategy. Increased trauma-informed training for first responders and healthcare professionals can ensure a more informed and sensitive approach when dealing with domestic violence cases.

Legislation also plays a pivotal role in addressing domestic violence. Stricter gun control measures, for instance, can significantly reduce the risk of lethal incidents resulting from domestic disputes. Ensuring that individuals with a history of domestic violence are unable to access firearms is a critical step in preventing tragedies like the recent shooting. Just last month, the Supreme Court heard testimony in a case that challenged a federal law that prohibits individuals under domestic violence restraining orders from owning firearms. A final ruling on this case has not been announced, and domestic violence advocates are hoping the Court will uphold this long-held law to keep victims, survivors, their families and the community safe.

The final component is education. By implementing effective prevention educational programs in schools and communities that promote healthy relationships, communication skills, and conflict resolution, we can foster a future generation equipped with the tools to break the cycle of violence.

In conclusion, the recent murder of a young mother by her abusive partner in our community serves as a heartbreaking reminder of the urgent need to confront and combat domestic violence. Safe Monroe implores community leaders, policymakers, and citizens to unite in a commitment to eradicating this pervasive issue. By promoting a culture of empathy, support, and accountability, we can work towards a safer, more resilient community for all. Together, let us break the cycle of domestic violence and strive for a future where every individual can live free from fear and abuse.


Lauren Peterson, Executive Director